when i open the fbx that was made in blender this happens.
is their any way i can fix this
Is there any way anyone else on this forum who can know anything about your .fbx file if you don’t supply a link to it ?
i will provide a link for it. Here you go https://drive.google.com/file/d/0BwhtwRWwObt6SDRPejJ0Q0hnTk0/view?usp=sharing
You might want to try Autodesk’s FBX converter.
My initial try with it created similar results to you, so it may need some tweaking in the export functions of the converter or the import settings in Max. Good luck.